Spectator Etiquette

1. Avoid "coaching" from the sideline. A common problem in youth soccer is the impulse parents have to shout instructions to their young player from the sideline. It’s especially difficult for a child because he or she has a tendency to refer to what a parent says, which often conflicts with the instruction from the coach.
2. Do not criticize the referee. Spectators should realize that referees are people and will make mistakes — even those officiating at the highest levels of play. When parents go after a referee for what they perceive as a mistake, it begins to make the game about the adults rather than the kids.
3. Focus on player development, not the score. Far too often parents worry about the numbers formed by illuminated lights on a scoreboard rather than the experience their child has while playing youth sports.
4. Be respectful to opposing fans. Grown adults should be able to go and enjoy their child’s experience without having any confrontation. Don’t forget, you’re not just representing the club, you’re representing your child.
5. Stay calm during the game. It's natural to feel emotional, but anxious pacing and tension affect both players and family.
6. Save coach feedback for later. Maybe you don’t agree with how much your child played in a game or another decision the coach made during the match. It’s important to take some time to think about it rather than confronting the coach in front of your child and the team. Use the “24 hour cool down period”

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